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Saturday, July 25, 2009

Super Excited!

I am super excited as we are having some good friends come up to visit this weekend coming!!
I am so excited i almost can't sleep!

Lots of fun planned but also mega relaxing times! I think there might even be a little adventure in there!

I was actually thinking back and when i was growing up mum and dad had a few good friends, but because we moved around allot, most of them lived all over Australia. But this worked out great for us kids and my parents. It meant that we would go on holidays to these friends houses and it was great! Some would live in the country and others on the beach. But i remember mum and dad always having these friends, they where constant, even though they didn't live in the same town when they did get together it was real friendship and they enjoyed themselves.

I am finding this out, i have recently ( just this week) been let down again by my expectations of great friendship. But this has not disheartened me against all friendship. I just need to relax, enjoy each day and if friendship comes along great, hopefully it is truthful and kindred type.

I have to learn not to put so much expectations on current friendships, otherwise i am just setting myself up for disappointment as it is always a recurring scene. One day that true friendship will come along, that long awaited best friend, where we live close to each oher, where you do everything together, laugh, giggle, enjoying being with each other, shop, movies, gossip, coffee and they truly truly want to hang out with you as much as you do with them, the initation is not always onesided.
Or is that something that they just put in the movies to make you all nostalgic and sentimental???..........
Who know's we will see.............

Here's to just being it the moment, enjoying friendship and not putting expectations on people.
and to finish of a true kindred friend once told me a great statement that i think is brilliant "Pure friendships and being truthful within them"

2 comments:

  1. it's just not your friendship year is it darling. I think those years are to set you up for amazing friendships and to open your eyes to the possibilities. only a few more days and we'll all be together again :)
    we've all been struck with the crappy flu down here atm, so hopefully it's completely out of our systems by then. Now, all I have to do is kick nige's butt into gear and get him to find out about what days he's getting off. pissing me off!!!!!!! i don't like being unorganised!!
    anyway darling, talk and see you very soon! xxoo

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  2. yer, i think i just gotta give up the friendship thing, and stop stressing. I am kept busy with acquanticies (sp), kids and life. So just be happy with what i have hey :)

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